The Fear of Die Alone

                                                                                
The people born, live and die, it’s a life law, but exist groups of people that feel scare of die alone. Obviously the people want live, we feel free to do something and enjoy the life in the form that the person decides, but the death is the only thing sure in this world. Some people avoid this topic and they say “I don’t care, I lived a perfect life, good cars, excellent wife and sons, and so is fine for me when the hour comes”. This people enjoy families, share time with them and seen this topic as a natural thing. But exist a difference between the people that see this topic as natural and the people that not, the different thing is the family support that this person receive. This support is a high relevant in the moment when the old person think about death this action can change the future years of this person.      

One of the causes for the people think fear of die alone is the divorces of couples, where depending the cause of divorce, the family divided and the kids don’t share with one of them. I talk about that because in my family occurred with my grandparents where they divorced after 30 years of marriage. The situation was the most common thing that occurs between couples, the adultery. This family problem was very hard for my father and my uncles because saw my grandmother in a depression and they had working with her. The time passed and my grandmother spent the page and followed her life, but my grandfather lost strong contact with his sons. One year ago my grandfather called his sons and said they that he had fear of die alone because don’t have couple and he feel that his sons don’t care his situation. My father and my uncles felt preoccupation for this situation and started shared time with him, they don’t accept the actions of my grandfather, but they accept for helped to avoid the feeling of him.

This situation is very common in Puerto Rico and others countries and create that the people feel alone and when are old people feel that they die without a person that can share feelings as, happiness and epics moments. Bad decisions in the life can create this feeling that anybody want, because anybody want die alone.