The Seriousness of Marriage

The life consists in hard, difficult, good and bad moments, and other things that always we can resolve with responsibility and seriousness. An example we can talk about is the marriage, what is the marriage? The marriage is a socially or ritually recognized union or legal contact between two persons, where they have new obligations and rights between them, if the person has children that create other responsibility inside the marriage.  In Puerto Rico I have seen de lack of seriousness that some people have with the marriage. They accept the marriage, but not the responsibility.  It’s very easy accept the word, but not the really meaning.  I understand that “errors” or “experiences” occur, but Puerto Rico is the second on the divorces rates in the world with 4.5 divorces per 1,000 people. This numbers explain one thing, some people of this island don’t show responsibility, respect and seriousness that need the marriage. The divorces situations in Puerto Rico are very serious because exist cases where one person attack his or her couple in a fight. In other cases the children can see the physical and psychological abuse inside the house.  You need prepare for enter in a relationship and the marriage.

Don’t go to a relationship or marriage for necessity; take your time to understand everything and you decide.  Obviously the first step in a marriage is the love, but not is all, you should meet very well the other person, accept his or her culture, religion, errors and everything of his or her personality.  It’s the most important step in the personal develop of everybody, so if you don’t feel secure don’t do that. If you accept and you don’t prepare for the marriage, you could affect the other person, if you have children could affect them and you could affect yourself.  The people should be responsible and serious when you take the decision, because is supposed to be for life, not for some time or until other woman or men appear.  The people need learn about the seriousness of the marriage, of this form we can avoid some abuse case in the families where people are affected including children. Everything can resolve with learn about that and have good communication.